THREE TIPS RISE OF FAILURE

JANGAN MENILAI SAAT SULIT

FAILURE IS NOT DEFEAT
Every human being must have been a failure in his life. Failures that occurred would result in a sense of disappointment and sadness because the result is not as expected. There are various kinds to the failure which of course we've ever experienced, such as failing to pass the exam schools, failed to go to college, or fail to get a job in the office that we desire.
We always feel that we have done business with full functionality, but man can only plan and Allah decided everything.

Pain and sorrow will be a failure is a natural thing, but it would be unnatural if we continue to dissolve in grief and pain because of a failure.
Remember, time ticking, and we cannot sit idly by and continually wallowing in failure, because of course there is always magic of failures we have experienced.

Failure is part of the process of success, there is no successful people in this world who never pass a failure. You could say failure is the middle name of the people who are successful. If we want to be patient, we will know and be grateful that we have failed. Failure is a form of lessons given by God in the form of sadness, but behind it there is good that we will get.

Do not look at that failure is a defeat, failure is a delayed victory, because it could be of failures we experience, we can enhance our work.

Successful people never give up in failure, he will make a failure as a stepping stone to success. Failure should not be mourned, but should be used as a whip of encouragement for the success we crave.
A success obtained with no instant way, even to cook instant noodles there are steps we need to take. Therefore, if a failure, we should be patient and try to find a way out to face the failure.

Every successful person in this world must have been a failure. A successful entrepreneur must have gone bankrupt, an author must have been rejected manuscript by the publisher, as well as a farmer must have also experienced crop failure.

Upon the success achieved by successful people are like icebergs. We only see the top only when they have been successful, but we will never see the bottom of the iceberg which resides in the ocean, where the parts are not visible was filled with struggle, pain, tears, and of course repeated failures.
Life is not as easy as turning the palm of the hand, there is a struggle we have to do. Just as fighters who fight for the independence of this nation from the hands of the invaders, we must fight for our success of despair because of a failure.

Allah has commanded us to not give up because of a failure, because the real after difficulty there is relief as the word of Allah in Al Quran:
"Because the real hardship comes ease, the real hardship comes ease. So when you have finished (from something affairs), do solemnly (affairs) in the other and to your Lord should you wish ". (Qur'an Surah, Al-Asyr: 5-8)
Of failure will forge us into a strong personal, not whiny, and not weak when faced with problems. Failure would be able to open our eyes that it is very important self introspection.

With the failure, we would inevitably be more correct themselves and learn from the mistakes that we have done. We will be more careful so that we do not fall into the same hole for the second time.

When we read the biographies of successful people, certainly most of the contents of the biography is a story about the failures they experience, while for their success story just a bit of it. How come ? Learning because failure is very costly, and only the winner who can conquer the obstacles that failure.

Failures of successful people can know that a winner is not born of a happiness, but from a business that provides struggles, tears, and tears.
Thomas Alva Edison, the inventor of the light bulb, he should exceed 1000 times the failure before success finally found the incandescent light bulb. Imagine what would happen if Thomas Alva Edison gave up half way through, of course, we will not be able to use a light bulb as it is today.

There are unique things that we learn from Thomas Alva Edison, 1000 failures he experienced never he saw as a failure, but as of 1000 the wrong way to make a light bulb.

Failure must be seen from the positive side, and the first way we have to do to deal with failure is "do not give up". There is a story about a gold miner who dug a cave 100 meters, was weeks miners dig but he did not get the gold one iota. The gold miners gave up and left the cave that she had dug.

A few weeks later, came another gold miner, he went into a cave that had been dug by previous miners. The miners began digging, but he was surprised when he had to dig as far as 1 meter, he found a chunk of glittering gold.

If you read the short story above, what is perceived first miners if they know that cave he dug and then he left behind actually save very much gold? Of course it will be very sorry, but time can not be played back.
That is the consequence if we give up because of a failure that we have experienced, we will lose something that we've wanted. Do we also want to experience such regret? Certainly not right?

Therefore, when a failure, our job just got up and tried again, if they fail, get up and try again, continue to do so until it's successful, because we never know at all how our efforts will be successful.

RISE OF FAILURE

If we fail, we should be grateful, because failure is a sign that we have sought and have to do something, do not just stand by and do nothing. Here are some tips you can do to help us rise from failure.
First, make peace with failure.

The first way to rise from failure is to come to terms with failure. How can we make peace? Namely to be patient and think positively about the failures we have been through. When we have come to terms with failure, then we will be able to take lessons from the failures that afflict us.
Second, learning from failure.

Experience is a good teacher, not only experience when we achieve success, but also the experience we have failed. We must Find out what caused the failure, lest we failed for similar reasons.
Third, the new strategy.

After know what caused the failure of us, it is time devised a new strategy to achieve our goals. Do not repeat strategies that make us fail. We must draw up new plans to achieve our plans.

Failure is often approached people who are trying, but we do not give up because failure is not defeat, if it never fails, one day we will never know how sweet a success.